Commentary
Cosby America's Dad:
Cosby had such a HUGE impact on so many of us growing up. He was the ideal dad. He was on television when families gathered together and watched the same thing at the same time. No social media, No YouTube and No Streaming Service. And, the media coined him "America's Dad" and he was a black man in America in the 80's. Everyone loved him!
The Cosby Show made us look at the world with more possibilities than most people could see for themselves. It made us see Clair Huxtable, the mom, the attorney, and the boss of the family, played by the always amazing Phylicia Rashad, as the mom we all secretly wished she for.
The children going off to college and the alma mater spirit that rang throughout the series and into the spin off "A Different World" put HBCUs, Historically Black Colleges and Universities, in prime-time for a wide viewing audience. Again, this was new for America.
Bill Cosby played Dr. Heathcliff "Cliff" Huxtable an Ob/Gyn in the shows 8 season run from 1984 - 1992. If you are a Gen Xer this was your entire childhood and you probably first encountered Bill Cosby in Fat Albert and The Cosby Kids in 1972 and again in Picture Pages in 1978 where he helped kids learn shapes, colors and math. Boomers will remember first meeting Cosby in "I Spy" as part of a dynamic duo or from his comedy albums. He won a multitude of awards for his groundbreaking work.
The Cosby Show and Cosby ruled NBC's Thursday nights at 8pm, he gave America humor, jazz, parenting lessons and showed a successful married couple that still really loved each other. It was an idealist picture of family that every person wanted to be a part of and that is why we tuned in. Cosby reportedly made a million dollars per episode and was one of the richest people in America. He is currently worth $400 million dollars.
Ok, so the HUGE PROBLEM!
Cosby Exposed:
Apparently, throughout much his career Cosby was a sexual deviant. He has been accused by 60 women of abuse, violation, drugging and in many cases rape. With the accusers finally going public, Cosby's behavior became front page news. Until now, Cosby and many other "bad actors" had been allowed to go unchecked because of money, power and status. New to many of us, Cosby's behavior was a poorly kept secret in the entertainment industry.
Cosby Goes to Jail:
On September 25, 2018, Cosby was sentenced to prison. On June 30, 2021, Cosby was release on a legal technicality after serving more that two years of a 3-10 year sentence. At age 83 Cosby walked free.
So an obvious one is question is, how do we reconcile the fact that Cosby and others similar to him have reached great heights in our society and have raised the bar in amazing ways professionally and culturally, and, on the flip-side, in their personal lives left devastation in their wake?
When Cosby Dies:
So, what do we do when Bill Cosby dies? The achievements, the success, the abuse, the conflict, the sadness, the disappointment will all be very real.
I think I will sit at home not watching the Cosby Show or Fat Albert or his stand-up routine. But, rather, know that "America's Dad" was really the neighborhood abuser. And, hopefully, in the future we won't say, "Stay away from that guy."
We'll say, "Call the police!"
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